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CHEWING THE FAT will be an opinion piece column which will be posted every Wednesday, breaking down controversial issues in the Asian community with the addition of MY personal experiences and perceptions. Expect it to be raw and real, with no holding back.


Okay, so I am just going to disclose that what I am about to write is purely an opinion piece predominantly based on MY experiences and MY perceptions. And I decided to write about this because it has really bugged me that as an Asian woman born and raised in the West (Australia) we are not only under estimated, but we always appear to become targets on social media – and no I do not just mean the ramifications of yellow fever – but a more sinister and divisive wedge which is predominantly perpetrated by our own Asians and yes I am referring to certain sections of the Asian men.

Generally, the issues start via conversations and ramblings from some Asian men about white men dating/in relationships with Asian women. It is as though it is some mortal sin or a huge crime for Asian women to have a white boyfriend or husband and that this automatically means that we are doomed, complete sell outs and are no longer qualified to discuss or advocate on Asian issues. Yes I am serious, its that basic. So much anger and all for what? Satisfaction and a few high fives from their fellow brothers in arms? I always wondered whether it would have been more productive if these type of Asian men who consider themselves alpha focus that anger to actually put things in action which will benefit the community and raise our relevance in the conversations of racial equality.

I guess for some of them this is too much to ask. And I do not make this assertion lightly. I mean I have been the recipient of some of these attacks and I am not even famous. A lot of the flack that I have received is because I have stood up against these so called alpha Asian men when they go on their rampage attacking strong and independent Asian women left, right and centre. Many of them feel that Asian women need to heed their every word and kneel by them waiting for approval and a pat on the head. And if we don’t, well we become social media targets. I have been given unsavoury labels such as “feminazi”, “sell out”, “good for nothing Asian woman”, and “white d%^$ worshipper” – all because I support feminist viewpoints on empowering Asian women in various Facebook groups and forums which seem to create and breed this vile and toxic environment.

Look at the hoo ha which involves Constance Wu speaking out about the white washing in Hollywood and speaking out on the casting of Matt Damon in the Great Wall movie. Some of these Asian males criticised her and used her personal life and relationships against her being able to speak up for Asian Americans, all because she has a white partner. Imagine if all that anger and wasted time attacking the wrong thing be more focused on supporting Constance’ voice? How much stronger and unified would we be as a global community?

Not too long ago, Offender Philip wrote about this exact issue. The title he used was fitting: Yes, Constance Wu Can Have a White Boyfriend & Still Advocate for Asian Americans… and of course he received flack from these type of Asian males. Just take a look at the post and some of the comments and you will get what I am saying.

It is a stark contradiction because when an Asian man dates/ marries a white woman – that relationship is revered, put on a pedestal and spoken very highly upon. But its a crime when it is the other way around. An odd phenomenon but I guess its all about the Asian man and about them retaining their title as an “alpha”. I guess its easier to attack the Asian woman and do this behind the computer screen, condemning them over social media. If you would like more evidence on all this, just check out the many reddit threads dedicated to discussing how Asian women are selling out.

So where to from here? Can we ever unite and fight the same fights instead of fighting each other? Well I hope so, because that is the only way we will achieve greater empowerment. But before we can even reach this point, we must get over being fickle and move beyond egos. Stop attacking us Asian women online and work with us. That is all I will say for now. End of topic.

11 Comments

  1. First of all, my partners have all been Asian women. I love them.

    White supremacy is why you’re dehumanized on screen, sexually assaulted/raped at high rates by American military bases in SK, Japan, Philippines and at home, etc, paid less at work, and dismissed everywhere else. You are a replacement for feminist white women. That’s how white men see you.

    Don’t believe me?

    http://i.imgur.com/mHsBI0T.jpg
    http://i.imgur.com/u6p1H1x.jpg
    http://i.imgur.com/br7VuV3.jpg

    The idea, specifically, that Asian women are more passive and deferential than white women, has been used to explain white men’s fetish for Asian women, Western men’s sex tourism in Asian countries, and Western men’s use of Asian mail order bride services. Some of these men, it is argued,

    ***want a subordinate partner and they find it difficult to meet a white American woman who is willing to play that role.***

    Marketing Asian Women To Anti-Feminist Men » Sociological Images
    http://thesocietypages.org/socimages/2009/07/25/marketing-asian-women-to-anti-feminist-men/

    Racism and sexual harassment could lie behind the higher incidence of suicide attempts amongst teenagers adopted from foreign countries.

    Girls are particularly at risk. Adopted teenagers from foreign countries are more than four times more likely to attempt suicide than other teenagers. Suicide attempts are several times higher amongst foreign female adoptees than amongst Swedish born women of
    the same age. The difference is big even compared to adopted women with Swedish biological parents.

    The research team believe they’ve detected a pattern following interviews with young adopted women of Asian descent. “People have preconceptions that [women of Asian descent] are promiscuous, prostitutes, have a strong sex drive and are considered to be exotic,” said Frank Lindblad, who believes that such sexual prejudices can be difficult for the women concerned to understand.”

    Racism behind suicide attempts
    http://www.thelocal.se/20060126/2942

    There are literally hundreds of websites, blogs and forums devoted to attacking virtually all women (or, at least, Westernized ones) — the so-called “manosphere,”…While some of them voice legitimate and sometimes disturbing complaints about the treatment of men, what is most remarkable is the misogynistic tone that pervades so many. Women are routinely maligned as sluts, gold-diggers, temptresses and worse; overly sympathetic men are dubbed “manginas”. This kind of woman-hatred is increasingly visible in most Western societies, and it tends to be allied with other anti-modern emotions.

    The men’s movement also includes mail-order-bride shoppers, unregenerate batterers, and wannabe pickup artists who are eager to learn the secrets of “game”—the psychological tricks that supposedly make it easy to seduce women.

    ***Some take an inordinate interest in extremely young women, or fetishize what they see as the ultra-feminine (read: docile) characteristics of South American and Asian women.***

    Others, who have internalized Christian “headship” doctrine, are desperately seeking the “submissive” women such doctrine celebrates. Still others are simply sexually awkward…The common denominator is their resentment of feminism and of females in general.

    Leader’s Suicide Brings Attention to Men’s Rights Movement | Southern Poverty Law Center:
    https://www.splcenter.org/fighting-hate/intelligence-report/2012/leader%E2%80%99s-suicide-brings-attention-men%E2%80%99s-rights-movement

    Feminist scholars have long studied the effects of global inequalities on relationships and sexual exchanges between Western males and non-Western women. This research initially framed Western men’s romantic and sexual liaisons with (putatively impoverished) non-Western women through tourism, the ‘mail-order bride industry’ and international matchmaking services as exploitation (Glodava and Onizuka; Narayan ‘‘‘Male-Order’ Brides’’).

    Globally circulating imaginaries that cast Asian, Latin American, Caribbean and East European women as more subservient than their allegedly liberated white counterparts in the USA and Western Europe drives Western men’s demand for non-Western women.

    Fed up with the independence, career-orientation, materialism, assertiveness and egalitarian expectations associated with white Western women, Western men pursue traditional, subservient wives from abroad, or immigrant populations in their own country

    An Intersectional Approach to Resistance and Complicity – The Case of Racialised Desire among Asian American Women
    http://dx.doi.org/10.1080/07256860903477704

    It made an impact over time, when all you hear is the negative instead of the positive. I always felt like the outsider and I was teased for just being Asian. They’d pull their eyes down, and they always thought I was Chinese.

    All sixty respondents had memories of being teased and feeling like a racial “other”.

    Asian Americans, especially girls and women, are disturbingly overrepresented with rates of depression and suicide. As recently as spring of 2011, The National Alliance on Mental lllness released a report that Asian American girls have the highest rates of depressive symptoms of any racial/ethnic or gender group.

    Asian American Sexual Politics: The Construction of Race, Gender, and Sexuality: Rosalind S. Chou
    http://www.amazon.com/Asian-American-Sexual-Politics-Construction/dp/1442209240

    In the 1970s when conservative White men grew discontent with the American feminist movement and White women’s ensuing push for liberation, they turned to the mail order bride industry in East Asia.

    with ‘good old fashioned values.’ Guided by sexual stereotypes of Asian women as subservient, these men saw Asian mail order brides as the much welcomed antithesis to the White American woman. Where the White feminist woman actively resisted subjugation, the Asian woman was portrayed as enjoying it.

    [Regarding Asian females] She is presented as the perfect complement to the exaggerated masculinity of the White Man, existing solely to serve men and be sexually consumed by them. Oriental Girls (1990), an article published in Gentleman’s Quarterly (GQ), described the Western male’s fantasy of the Asian female – She doesn’t go to assertiveness training classes, insist on being treated like a person, fret about career moves, wield her orgasm as a non negotiable demand . . . She’s there when you need shore leave from those angry feminist seas.

    White Sexual Imperialism: A Theory of Asian Feminist Jurisprudence
    http://scholarlycommons.law.wlu.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1243&context=crsj

  2. More egalitarian white men…

    I don’t really care if a hot blonde [sleeps with] an Asian dude but that is because I am over getting with these girls now, can’t say the same for most people though.

    You’re going to get shit tested by American society like there is no tomorrow. Most guys of other races are going to go hard at you for being with these girls, especially some of the angrier white guys. I would recommend learning how to fight by taking up MMA, you’re going to need it .

    American society does not like it when minorities start going for its precious blondes. I promise you, you will see American society’s true racist views once you get with these women.

    Advice and a guide for Asian and Indian guys that want to get cute blondes – from a white guy. : TheRedPill: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3uxf1r/advice_and_a_guide_for_asian_and_indian_guys_that/

    I reflected on the wreckage of that discrimination — especially the people we never expected to stand against us. People we considered mentors and friends – it’s like they were lying to you all along.

    “Everything they said is true especially about passive-aggressive that some of my white girlfriends have told me they get from their (white male) friends about me. They seem to have been rather fortunate because I’ve actually had to end friendships when my white girlfriend overheard some of my white male friends telling racist jokes about me behind my back.

    Is it just coincidence that the people in question are all European, Americans, and mostly male – I once wrote that my marriage to a Chinese man put me in a lonely club, and I never imagined that I would understand that on another level. The loss of trust just makes us feel isolated all the more.

    Who Can We Trust After The Discrimination? | Speaking of China:
    http://www.speakingofchina.com/china-articles/who-can-we-trust-after-discrimination/

    “Before she got hate mail and death threats last Christmas, Ashlyn Sullivan was just a 20 year old Wichita waitress working tables at a Buffalo Wild Wings. But on Dec 22, Sullivan said, six drunken customers taunted her with racial slurs after she told them she dates a black man. Sullivan is white.”

    Waitress’ blog post on interracial relationship creates a viral stir | Duluth News Tribune
    http://www.duluthnewstribune.com/pursuits/3688307-waitress-blog-post-interracial-relationship-creates-viral-stir

    But even though ongoing struggles for women’s rights have won passage of laws against abuse in the home, domestic violence is still a leading cause of death for women aged 15 44. Women are often killed after leaving a relationship with a spouse or lover who felt entitled to enforce his terms on her departure.

    murdered children are still overwhelmingly the victims of their own families in their own homes.

    What’s Really Behind the Catholic Church’s Sexual Abuse Problem? | Alternet: http://www.alternet.org/story/146920/what's_really_behind_the_catholic_church's_sexual_abuse_problem

    I know it sounds like an over-generalization, but it kind of seems that ESL teachers fall into to two categories: white guys with no game who want to give getting laid a try, so they go to some Pacific Rim country and hope the wealth disparity gives them that edge they need; and pedophiles who want to try out the underage hookers in Thailand or whatever.

    I don’t know, it’s just that I’ve known at least three guys who have gone across the ocean to teach english, and they’ve all been dirtbags.

    Tell me about it dude. Most of them don’t even know how to teach or even have degrees. A lot of guys that get discharged in Korea stay here and teach english and make bank and use girls. And they don’t even speak Korean!

    Guys who teach english overseas are all scumbags | Sherdog Forums | UFC, MMA & Boxing Discussion
    http://forums.sherdog.com/threads/guys-who-teach-english-overseas-are-all-scumbags.565263/

    Young guy is thinking of moving to China to work as a teacher. He’d heard about sexpats and alcoholic expats. China is full of them, he was told. What a bunch of losers.

    I’ve told the girls I’m not sure I’m ready for a serious relationship. It’s their fault if the choose to hang on hoping for something more.

    He starts using tantan for hookups. It’s so easy to have a few different girls on the go. I was hurting the girls I was hooking up with (they all seem to be looking for marriage).

    I’d become some sort of sexpat alcoholic. I’m just as shitty as any other guy.

    [SERIOUS] Did China force you to face your inner demons? : China
    https://www.reddit.com/r/China/comments/481sbh/serious_did_china_force_you_to_face_your_inner/

    http://i.imgur.com/mHsBI0T.jpg
    http://i.imgur.com/u6p1H1x.jpg
    http://i.imgur.com/br7VuV3.jpg

    Why are there no articles about this white patriarchy / misogyny?

    Is it because they are white?

  3. Here’s your ACTUAL history at the hands of white men.

    http://i.imgur.com/9PtbALV.jpg
    http://i.imgur.com/dBdjvNN.jpg
    http://i.imgur.com/uuUHwtW.jpg
    http://i.imgur.com/IjPXuhM.jpg
    http://i.imgur.com/tOh9P8L.jpg

    extensive and once notorious legacy of the rape, trafficking and forced sexual exploitation of women of color – and of Asian women in particular – by American soldiers abroad. For nearly half of the 20th century (from roughly 1939 to 1980), America maintained an enormous military presence throughout the Pacific Rim,

    American culture has added insult to this widespread injury by not only failing to chastise American men for this behavior, but celebrating it as suggestive of American virility and perpetuating the meme of the exotic, sexually permissive Asian woman in pop culture. From Miss Saigon to Memoirs of a Geisha to Lucy Liu dressed as a masseuse in Charlie’s Angels, Asian women are rarely represented as having any agency or choice.

    It’s as though they spent 40 years raping us and the last 30 talking about how much we enjoyed it.

    This particular form of racism has myriad consequences for Asian American women. A significant amount of the attention we receive from non Asian men is in the form of creepy, excessive enthusiasm

    The American feminist narrative focuses a lot on so called rape culture. What it almost never bothers to mention, however, is that it is Asian women at whom this culture is most blatantly and directly aimed.

    Asian Women, American GIs, and Modern Rape Culture | Persephone Magazine:
    http://persephonemagazine.com/2011/05/asian-women-american-gis-and-modern-rape-culture/
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  4. >It is as though it is some mortal sin or a huge crime for Asian women to have a white boyfriend or husband and that this automatically means that we are doomed, complete sell outs and are no longer qualified to discuss or advocate on Asian issues.

    Show us what these so-called activists have done. Amy Tan and Maxine Hong Kingston published lies/orientalism to pander to whites and smear generations of Asian culture and Asian men to the point people believe we are misogynistic and hateful. Yet…..

    It’s the “egalitarian white man” who commits anti-women crimes at far far higher rates than Asian men.

    ● 3.97x higher Forcible rapes
    ● 4.07x higher Sex offenses (except forcible rape and prostitution)
    ● 6.28x higher Offenses against the family and children
    ● 7.72x higher Drunkenness –

    http://i.imgur.com/ac43zR4.jpg

    FBI — Crime in the U.S. 2007:
    https://www.fbi.gov/about-us/cjis/ucr/crime-in-the-u.s/2007
    source for crime data table: https://www2.fbi.gov/ucr/cius2007/data/documents/07tbl43a.xls

  5. >I always wondered whether it would have been more productive if these type of Asian men who consider themselves alpha focus that anger to actually put things in action which will benefit the community and raise our relevance in the conversations of racial equality.

    The reason Asian activism goes no where is because no one can take us seriously. Asians are turned into a complete joke thanks to the mass defection of Asian women. You people talk about Asian power, but then crawl into bed with the SAME people who insult and bully your Asian brothers and sons, gang rape your sisters in America, Okinawa, Philippines, etc and insult you with degrading roles on film and tv [see kulturemedia.org]. And, you want to lecture us on Asian “misogyny”?

    The enemy is WHITE supremacy. All of us should be attacking it 24/7, but article after article, too many Asians [men and women] focus on the wrong group.

  6. >A lot of the flack that I have received is because I have stood up against these so called alpha Asian men when they go on their rampage attacking strong and independent Asian women

    You are very misinformed about your stature. White men laugh at you behind your back at your naivety

    “I know men cheating on their girlfriends back home. Single men having fun with several Chinese girls and letting a girl think that she is special and his only girl. I have heard of husbands cheating their wife without getting caught.

    What is wrong with these men – My theory is that because it’s easy for a Western man (even easier if you’re tall and
    good looking) to get attention and more from Chinese women. They are more popular here than back home.”

    What is wrong with Western men in China? | Living A Dream In China
    http://sarajaaksola.com/western-men-cheat-in-china/

    John has a history of cultivating a harem of exclusively attractive Asian women.

    “John was Scandinavian… He seemed unreal. Like a dream boyfriend.” John was sleeping with at least four other Asian women.

    some sluts recounting the horrors of dating this player John, and the second half is them bitching and moaning about yellow fever.

    Phoebe also informs us, that this has been going on for three generations, and that all the women John dates are Asian, and these sluts all feel very gross about that. The girls find this attitude frustrating. The thing is, John doesn’t care.

    Don’ t feel sorry for women; exploit them to your advantage. giving no fucks about what other people think.

    Man dates TEN attractive women, gets caught, shrugs it off, and plates 10 new women : TheRedPill
    http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3b2cpu/man_dates_ten_attractive_women_gets_caught_shrugs/

    Many non-Asian males think Asian females have tight vaginas and many will want to “try it for fun”. These guys don’t care about you despite pretending to “like and respect” you, and “admire Asian culture”.

    How do “Egalitarian and Honorable White Gentlemen” act when they are rejected?

    http://i.imgur.com/IkqzZO9.jpg
    http://i.imgur.com/lMEP2Kr.jpg
    http://i.imgur.com/11k14Ix.jpg
    http://i.imgur.com/fMiOSoS.jpg

    I think low self-esteem is the major reason why a lot of White guys go Asian.
    https://www.reddit.com/r/hapas/comments/4cp0mf/i_think_low_selfesteem_is_the_major_reason_why_a/d1kdlwx

    Remember Asian Girlz by egalitarian white men?

    How about this doozy?

    David Bowie (yes, the super famous singer from the 1980’s)’s music video, China girl, where he does chink eyes.

    http://i.imgur.com/wNXAbBO.jpg

    David Bowie – China Girl
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E_8IXx4tsus

    White hegemonic ideologies of masculinity and femininity determine who gets to have sex with whom …We do not make choices of attraction in a vacuum…Hegemonic ideology becomes our commonsense notions.

    Women were painted as perpetually sexually available to white men while Asian American men were constructed as castrated or impotent…

    Asian American Sexual Politics: The Construction of Race, Gender, and Sexuality: Rosalind S. Chou
    http://www.amazon.com/Asian-American-Sexual-Politics-Construction/dp/1442209240

    Many respondents described encounters with non-Asians, usually whites, who expected them to be passive, quiet, and yielding. Several described non-Asian (mostly white) men who brought such expectations to their dating relationships. Indeed, the servile Lotus Blossom image bolsters white men’s preference for Asian women

    racialized images can cause Asian American women to believe they will find greater gender equality with white men and can cause white men to believe they will find greater subservience with Asian women. This dynamic promotes Asian American women’s availability to white men and

    ***makes them particularly vulnerable to mistreatment.***

    Asian American Women And Racialized Femininities ‘Doing’ Gender across Cultural Worlds
    http://www.irows.ucr.edu/cd/courses/232/pyke/femininities.pdf

    Asian women are rendered hyperfeminine: passive, weak, quiet, excessively submissive, slavishly dutiful, sexually exotic, and available for white men Controlling images of Asian women also make them especially vulnerable to mistreatment from men who view them as easy targets.

    Asian American Women And Racialized Femininities ‘Doing’ Gender across Cultural Worlds
    http://www.irows.ucr.edu/cd/courses/232/pyke/femininities.pdf

    resistance of gender oppression among our respondents draws ideologically on the denigration and rejection of ethnic Asian culture, thereby reinforcing white dominance.

    Asian American Women And Racialized Femininities ‘Doing’ Gender across Cultural Worlds
    http://www.irows.ucr.edu/cd/courses/232/pyke/femininities.pdf/

    Respondents commonly juxtaposed images of despotic, unloving Asian men against those of white men as romantic liberators in constructing two different forms of racialised masculinity.

    Respondents, including many who do not prefer to date white men, regularly invoke stereotypes in constructing Asian American men as the inferior inverse of white men. They describe Asian American men as ‘‘dominant’’, ‘‘mean’’, ‘‘dictators’’, ‘‘not liking a girl who has too many opinions’’, ‘‘treating women like property’’ and ‘‘wife beaters’’. They depict white men, on the other hand, as attractive, romantic, loving, sensitive, communicative and gender egalitarian traits they claim are lacking in Asian American men.

    An Intersectional Approach to Resistance and Complicity – The Case of Racialised Desire among Asian American Women
    http://dx.doi.org/10.1080/07256860903477704

  7. >Look at the hoo ha which involves Constance Wu speaking out about the white washing in Hollywood and speaking out on the casting of Matt Damon in the Great Wall movie. Some of these Asian males criticised her and used her personal life and relationships against her being able to speak up for Asian Americans, all because she has a white partner

    Constance Wu, she advocates for Asian women, but says nothing about Asian men. This is not a leader. She’s a selfish social climber. I already covered the awful track record of the most prominent Asian female activists married to white men. They are liars that smear Asian people and Asian culture. Those are not leaders.

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    >It is a stark contradiction because when an Asian man dates/ marries a white woman – that relationship is revered

    Of course it is becaues the dynamics are totally different. Both are bad, but one is fighting against total social oppression and the other is fighting against Asian men. Please stop this false equivalence.

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    Even the hapa children hate their afwm parents and suffer the highest mental illness rates beacuse your relationships are largely created through self hate [af] and racist hate [wm].

    ‘We cannot underestimate the importance of understanding the social, psychological and experiential differences that may increase the likelihood of psychological disorders among this fast growing segment of the population.’ Among the biracial individuals in their national survey the researchers found 34 percent had been diagnosed with a psychological disorder such as anxiety, depression or substance abuse compared to 17 percent of monoracial individuals. The higher rate held up even after the researchers controlled for differences between the groups in age, gender and life stress among other factors.

    Biracial Asian Americans and Mental Health :: UC Davis News & Information:
    http://news.ucdavis.edu/search/news_detail.lasso?id=8732

    Here are the hapa psychos. Notice, all afwm parents. This is not a coincidence.

    http://i.imgur.com/Cjl6anh.jpg
    http://i.imgur.com/6UnGaUi.jpg
    http://i.imgur.com/82lqZps.jpg
    http://i.imgur.com/HIBM80F.jpg
    http://i.imgur.com/UiYimk2.jpg
    http://i.imgur.com/7uK5J4R.jpg
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    http://i.imgur.com/Qq5OgHU.jpg
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    http://i.imgur.com/Y02c3vv.jpg
    http://i.imgur.com/pV1HE3h.jpg
    http://i.imgur.com/STNoBMG.jpg
    http://i.imgur.com/NaNYHid.jpg
    http://i.imgur.com/NUpsjjy.jpg

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    >So where to from here? Can we ever unite and fight the same fights instead of fighting each other?

    Stop defending white supremacy by sleeping with the people who are literally subjugating you right now and have been for hundreds of years. Women like you are turning Asians into a total joke. Here’s what a Black woman had to say

    http://i.imgur.com/BkC0HJA.jpg

    Every white and Asian academic researcher agrees. Everyone knows this is a problem except the people that keep defending it – Asian women and white men.

  8. [trying again.]

    First of all, my partners have all been Asian women. I love them.

    White supremacy is why you’re dehumanized on screen, sexually assaulted/raped at high rates by American military bases in SK, Japan, Philippines and at home, etc, paid less at work, and dismissed everywhere else. You are a replacement for feminist white women. That’s how white men see you.

    Don’t believe me?

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    The idea, specifically, that Asian women are more passive and deferential than white women, has been used to explain white men’s fetish for Asian women, Western men’s sex tourism in Asian countries, and Western men’s use of Asian mail order bride services. Some of these men, it is argued,

    ***want a subordinate partner and they find it difficult to meet a white American woman who is willing to play that role.***

    source: Marketing Asian Women To Anti-Feminist Men » Sociological Images
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    Racism and sexual harassment could lie behind the higher incidence of suicide attempts amongst teenagers adopted from foreign countries.

    Girls are particularly at risk. Adopted teenagers from foreign countries are more than four times more likely to attempt suicide than other teenagers. Suicide attempts are several times higher amongst foreign female adoptees than amongst Swedish born women of
    the same age. The difference is big even compared to adopted women with Swedish biological parents.

    The research team believe they’ve detected a pattern following interviews with young adopted women of Asian descent. “People have preconceptions that [women of Asian descent] are promiscuous, prostitutes, have a strong sex drive and are considered to be exotic,” said Frank Lindblad, who believes that such sexual prejudices can be difficult for the women concerned to understand.”

    source: Racism behind suicide attempts
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    There are literally hundreds of websites, blogs and forums devoted to attacking virtually all women (or, at least, Westernized ones) — the so-called “manosphere,”…While some of them voice legitimate and sometimes disturbing complaints about the treatment of men, what is most remarkable is the misogynistic tone that pervades so many. Women are routinely maligned as sluts, gold-diggers, temptresses and worse; overly sympathetic men are dubbed “manginas”. This kind of woman-hatred is increasingly visible in most Western societies, and it tends to be allied with other anti-modern emotions.

    The men’s movement also includes mail-order-bride shoppers, unregenerate batterers, and wannabe pickup artists who are eager to learn the secrets of “game”—the psychological tricks that supposedly make it easy to seduce women.

    ***Some take an inordinate interest in extremely young women, or fetishize what they see as the ultra-feminine (read: docile) characteristics of South American and Asian women.***

    Others, who have internalized Christian “headship” doctrine, are desperately seeking the “submissive” women such doctrine celebrates. Still others are simply sexually awkward…The common denominator is their resentment of feminism and of females in general.

    source:Leader’s Suicide Brings Attention to Men’s Rights Movement | Southern Poverty Law Center:
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    Feminist scholars have long studied the effects of global inequalities on relationships and sexual exchanges between Western males and non-Western women. This research initially framed Western men’s romantic and sexual liaisons with (putatively impoverished) non-Western women through tourism, the ‘mail-order bride industry’ and international matchmaking services as exploitation (Glodava and Onizuka; Narayan ‘‘‘Male-Order’ Brides’’).

    Globally circulating imaginaries that cast Asian, Latin American, Caribbean and East European women as more subservient than their allegedly liberated white counterparts in the USA and Western Europe drives Western men’s demand for non-Western women.

    Fed up with the independence, career-orientation, materialism, assertiveness and egalitarian expectations associated with white Western women, Western men pursue traditional, subservient wives from abroad, or immigrant populations in their own country

    source: An Intersectional Approach to Resistance and Complicity – The Case of Racialised Desire among Asian American Women
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    It made an impact over time, when all you hear is the negative instead of the positive. I always felt like the outsider and I was teased for just being Asian. They’d pull their eyes down, and they always thought I was Chinese.

    All sixty respondents had memories of being teased and feeling like a racial “other”.

    Asian Americans, especially girls and women, are disturbingly overrepresented with rates of depression and suicide. As recently as spring of 2011, The National Alliance on Mental lllness released a report that Asian American girls have the highest rates of depressive symptoms of any racial/ethnic or gender group.

    source: Asian American Sexual Politics: The Construction of Race, Gender, and Sexuality: Rosalind S. Chou
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    In the 1970s when conservative White men grew discontent with the American feminist movement and White women’s ensuing push for liberation, they turned to the mail order bride industry in East Asia.

    with ‘good old fashioned values.’ Guided by sexual stereotypes of Asian women as subservient, these men saw Asian mail order brides as the much welcomed antithesis to the White American woman. Where the White feminist woman actively resisted subjugation, the Asian woman was portrayed as enjoying it.

    [Regarding Asian females] She is presented as the perfect complement to the exaggerated masculinity of the White Man, existing solely to serve men and be sexually consumed by them. Oriental Girls (1990), an article published in Gentleman’s Quarterly (GQ), described the Western male’s fantasy of the Asian female – She doesn’t go to assertiveness training classes, insist on being treated like a person, fret about career moves, wield her orgasm as a non negotiable demand . . . She’s there when you need shore leave from those angry feminist seas.

    source: White Sexual Imperialism: A Theory of Asian Feminist Jurisprudence

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    More egalitarian white men…

    I don’t really care if a hot blonde [sleeps with] an Asian dude but that is because I am over getting with these girls now, can’t say the same for most people though.

    You’re going to get shit tested by American society like there is no tomorrow. Most guys of other races are going to go hard at you for being with these girls, especially some of the angrier white guys. I would recommend learning how to fight by taking up MMA, you’re going to need it .

    American society does not like it when minorities start going for its precious blondes. I promise you, you will see American society’s true racist views once you get with these women.

    source: Advice and a guide for Asian and Indian guys that want to get cute blondes – from a white guy
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    I reflected on the wreckage of that discrimination — especially the people we never expected to stand against us. People we considered mentors and friends – it’s like they were lying to you all along.

    “Everything they said is true especially about passive-aggressive that some of my white girlfriends have told me they get from their (white male) friends about me. They seem to have been rather fortunate because I’ve actually had to end friendships when my white girlfriend overheard some of my white male friends telling racist jokes about me behind my back.

    Is it just coincidence that the people in question are all European, Americans, and mostly male – I once wrote that my marriage to a Chinese man put me in a lonely club, and I never imagined that I would understand that on another level. The loss of trust just makes us feel isolated all the more.

    source: Who Can We Trust After The Discrimination? | Speaking of China:
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    “Before she got hate mail and death threats last Christmas, Ashlyn Sullivan was just a 20 year old Wichita waitress working tables at a Buffalo Wild Wings. But on Dec 22, Sullivan said, six drunken customers taunted her with racial slurs after she told them she dates a black man. Sullivan is white.”

    source: Waitress’ blog post on interracial relationship creates a viral stir | Duluth News Tribune
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    But even though ongoing struggles for women’s rights have won passage of laws against abuse in the home, domestic violence is still a leading cause of death for women aged 15 44. Women are often killed after leaving a relationship with a spouse or lover who felt entitled to enforce his terms on her departure.

    murdered children are still overwhelmingly the victims of their own families in their own homes.

    source: What’s Really Behind the Catholic Church’s Sexual Abuse Problem? Alternet
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    I know it sounds like an over-generalization, but it kind of seems that ESL teachers fall into to two categories: white guys with no game who want to give getting laid a try, so they go to some Pacific Rim country and hope the wealth disparity gives them that edge they need; and pedophiles who want to try out the underage hookers in Thailand or whatever.

    I don’t know, it’s just that I’ve known at least three guys who have gone across the ocean to teach english, and they’ve all been dirtbags.

    Tell me about it dude. Most of them don’t even know how to teach or even have degrees. A lot of guys that get discharged in Korea stay here and teach english and make bank and use girls. And they don’t even speak Korean!

    source: Guys who teach english overseas are all scumbags Sherdog Forums UFC, MMA & Boxing Discussion
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    Young guy is thinking of moving to China to work as a teacher. He’d heard about sexpats and alcoholic expats. China is full of them, he was told. What a bunch of losers.

    I’ve told the girls I’m not sure I’m ready for a serious relationship. It’s their fault if the choose to hang on hoping for something more.

    He starts using tantan for hookups. It’s so easy to have a few different girls on the go. I was hurting the girls I was hooking up with (they all seem to be looking for marriage).

    I’d become some sort of sexpat alcoholic. I’m just as shitty as any other guy.

    source: SERIOUS Did China force you to face your inner demons? China

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    Why are there no articles about this white patriarchy / misogyny?

    Is it because they are white?

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    Here’s your ACTUAL history at the hands of white men.

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    extensive and once notorious legacy of the rape, trafficking and forced sexual exploitation of women of color – and of Asian women in particular – by American soldiers abroad. For nearly half of the 20th century (from roughly 1939 to 1980), America maintained an enormous military presence throughout the Pacific Rim,

    American culture has added insult to this widespread injury by not only failing to chastise American men for this behavior, but celebrating it as suggestive of American virility and perpetuating the meme of the exotic, sexually permissive Asian woman in pop culture. From Miss Saigon to Memoirs of a Geisha to Lucy Liu dressed as a masseuse in Charlie’s Angels, Asian women are rarely represented as having any agency or choice.

    It’s as though they spent 40 years raping us and the last 30 talking about how much we enjoyed it.

    This particular form of racism has myriad consequences for Asian American women. A significant amount of the attention we receive from non Asian men is in the form of creepy, excessive enthusiasm

    The American feminist narrative focuses a lot on so called rape culture. What it almost never bothers to mention, however, is that it is Asian women at whom this culture is most blatantly and directly aimed.

    Source: Asian Women, American GIs, and Modern Rape Culture – Persephone Magazine

  11. Came in to post this, however seen someone already handled her:
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    Will you ugly (and fat) asian femanazis just disappear already?

    Chew on that